Grades

With report cards going home this week, I find myself wondering how much grades affect a student's drive. Unfortunately, many parents wish that students were motivated by grades, but in reality, many students in all grade levels are rarely affected by grades.  Partly due to their maturity, but mainly due to the lack of exposure to the real world, students often don't see the implications their grades have on their life after school.

I for one was not really affected by my grades in school. In fact, when looking back at my report card, I don't even remember receiving some of the F's I received in high school. I guess I was too into my social life and sports to take notice. It was not until college when grades became important. I can still remember when I changed majors and was told that I wouldn't be able to interview for the college of education program unless I had a 3.0.  At the time I had a 2.8, so needless to say I worked my butt off to make the grades and from that point on, I have made all As, except for the A- I received in Dr. Kersey's class at Trevecca! 

Parents often ask how to motivate students. The only thing I can think of that would motivate them is to show them the world. Set up an interview at a local college with the recruiter or college of their interest. Set up a meeting at the local architectural firm with the COO. Let them ask the questions that will inspire them. If they do not have any goals, show them a homeless shelter or food bank so that they see the opposite of where you think they should end up. Take them to local national parks so that they can learn the history behind our nation. Or sign them up for a sport or church event that requires strong academics.

There are so many things parents could plan that would inspire students to make better grades. Unfortunately, with the limit amount of time teachers spend with students, it is hard for teachers do motivate students in the same life-long manner.